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Thursday, September 10, 2015

You are right !

Yes
You know right
Whenever I started blogging again ...
It means something not going well

 To be honest , recently
 I feel so lost
 I feel suffocating
 I feel disappointed

" We only get to see what people choose to show "
That's so true .


I just realized that you older you get , you lesser you would like to share or speak to others .
It could because of we are acting too mature to handle everything by ourselves or
we just don't simply trust anyone.
That's so sad  !

So much things and feelings to be express but just can't release it all
because adults told ya
It's kind of self- protection thingy


The question is
do we really feel good for keeping everything by ourselves and at the same time
showing others that you are living well ?

Think about it.
Here is an old pic of me 

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

SORRYYYYY


OPS!

SORRY...

For abandoned my blog for so looooooooong...

I am BACK! REALLY!
And.... I will update this blog more often....

Although I have no readers at all =P


This blogspot is for me to record every single special moments in my life!


Keep going! & Stay positive, Wan Li Tang!

Monday, January 7, 2013

渴望...


当一个人的时候
选择羡慕情侣的生活
渴望爱情的滋润
渴望被爱与爱人的感觉

当终于谈起恋爱的时候
选择羡慕拍拖很久的情侣
因为会认为足够了解,足够信任
渴望一种安全感
渴望一种稳定的感觉

当拍拖很久很稳的时候
选择羡慕刚刚谈起恋爱的情侣
因为渴望新鲜感
渴望不一样的东西
又再一次的渴望探索的心情

当正要踏入另一阶段时
选择羡慕自由
渴望没有责任感的感觉
渴望无需想太多的心情

当开始婚姻的时候
选择羡慕老夫老妻的生活
渴望能够有勇气一起经过风风雨雨的感觉
渴望能够忍受及拒绝诱惑的感觉

很多时候
很多很多的人都没有活在当下
大部分
很多人不是在期许未来
就是在追忆过去

所有的渴望正只是因为没有活在当下
没有真真的把身心交给当下
没有真真的去感受与享受活在当心
没有真真的去珍惜当下所拥有的
没有了感恩
所以有了渴望



那.................是时候学习活在当下了

Friday, January 4, 2013

久违了


你有多久….

没有发现到….

镜子里的自己改变了?
许多许多
也许…..有好的,也有坏的..
这没有错..
因为那..
所有好的坏的都让我们成长….

发生了这么多的事情
我一直都不太敢说些什么
因为害怕
情绪太激动的时候会说很多的气话
伤害到别人

一直很保护这段感情
所以很低调

每个人都用自己的方法去保护害怕失去的东西

就好像怕会引起轰动,怕会再伤害到对方,怕对方难堪
所以只把 Relationship status private掉去 only me can see

只有自己才能够看见自己的 “In a relationship”的status
哈可笑吧
才发现我们都用了同样的方法

没错
是失恋了
两年的感情真的没有了
就这样没有了
很遗憾,很难过,很可惜
再也不能够为你做些什么
再也不能够为我们做些什么



无可否认
最近学习了很多东西
领悟到许多就好像电影情节里的情景
戏如人生
这句话,好真实
渐渐明白...
以前不太明白的现在有点明白了


这个花花世界真的不会为了一个人的伤心而停留
甚至不会可怜你


可以伤心难过
可是绝对不可以颓废

因为
如果伤心的你没有钱吃饭的时候,
这个世界也不会变一盒饭给你
生活还是要过

朋友家人会在这个时候演很重要的角色
他们会包容,鼓励你
这个人情一定要埋在心里头

家人好朋友绝对不会放弃你
在这段时间,几天几个星期甚至几个月

可是他们也一样的要过生活
总不能够24/7陪伴你

所以能不能够站起来
真的唯有自己去打开心结


只有自己才能够是
那位陪你走到最后的人

对别人好
是一种美德
单纯地希望将心比心
对别人好,人家对你好..

很遗憾
我们必须懂得
没有人有义务一定要对你好

当然,如果你遇见了真真对你好的人,
要好好珍惜
因为没有人有义务要对你好的
要感恩啊,如果你真的遇到

当别人对你好的时候要感激
当别人没有或不再对你好的时候不要难过
那只是本性

可以伤心但不要绝望
或许或许你会遇见更好的
或许以后会再相遇

当你伤心难过时就流泪吧
不要硬撑
如果连自己对自己的感觉都隐藏,都不能坦白的话,会很可悲

我们要加油

写到这里
真的必须告诉自己不要再执着了
要学会独立
学习自己陪自己走到最后

我们要懂得开心就好
虽然很遗憾
当你认为你已经做了应该做的东西

那就足够了

只是纯粹想分享 =)


××××××
如果你也看见了这个关于你的贴子,
我希望你是笑着的,为你所做的决定
不要再觉得对我愧疚了! =)

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Someday..

Someday in life
Maybe soon,
maybe later..
I will be able to meet someone
who truly appreciate me
I guess.

Friday, November 30, 2012


Do not rely too much on everyone in this world,
the reason is simple..
even your shadow will leaves you when you are in darkness.


Nice quote by my friend. 

Thursday, November 22, 2012

世界上最爱你的人,

不是花时间陪你的人,

因为这种人只会陪你一阵子

不是一辈子。


最爱你的人,

也许就是少陪你的那个,

因为他是个在忙着用自己的时间为你的未来打算的人。



Well said!
Copy from My friend's status.

Monday, November 19, 2012

有些事情,
不谈是个结,
谈开了是个疤。


人常常都对自己说,
就这样,
算了吧,
别想了,
但是都做不到。
嗯,
真的很难。

Friday, November 16, 2012



痛过,才知道如何保护自己。
哭过,才知道心痛是什么感觉,
才知道
适时的坚持与放弃。
爱过,才知道自己其实很脆弱。
其实生活并不需
要这么些无谓的执着,
没甚么就真的不能割舍。



My friend's status on facebook inspired me..


Wednesday, November 14, 2012



Started missing you..
Especially during rainy day..
I understand that, there are different stages in a relationship..
I really hope that we can go through this stage

Tuesday, November 6, 2012


What are you hoping for our relationship status?

.....




一個人離開的意志再堅決 
多少的眼淚還是留不住 

Monday, November 5, 2012


Every girl has her best friend, boyfriend, & true love. but you're really lucky if they’re all the same person.

Friday, November 2, 2012

Time

It is just the matter of time..

We should have not be afraid of

being alone...

Being left out...

Being abandoned..

 It is just the matter of time..

Learn to move on


Thursday, November 1, 2012

promised to upload...

video

I am uploading this as requested by my cousin, Jia Qi.
Thanks a lot my beloved relatives, friends and besties.
I could not imagine if without each of you.

Insomia

Someone please tell me what to do..
What I suppose to do to make myself better
or to save our relationship
What can I say

As you wish
Take your time to think about it
I am letting you to do so
But however,
I have no confidence that you will come back to me

I am stress
of course,
as I have no one to talk to..
My family going to a trip this weekend
I need to take care of myself and home alone

How could you....

I still could not believe that this is the truth
My hands are shaking cold
My heart is bleeding
My brain is fulfilled with a lot question marks

I still could not believe that

All my plans and stuffs are stuck now..
I find no one to help out..

It's difficult for you to just make a call or send a simple text message to explain
I just do not understand

I do not know what's happening
I bet we should give ourselves a chance to explain face to face




只是累了,只是不愿意了 ❤

两个在一起近2年的人,
忽然分开了,
性格不和?第三者?还是为什么?

或许当你问起他们分开的原因,
他们会给予各式各样的说辞。

但是,
没有解决不了的问题。

最大的问题不是性格不合,
也不是第三者的出现。

只是大家累了,
当初的包容不在,
那时的忍耐不复,
所以不愿意,也不想去修复这段感情。

一段千沧百孔的爱情。

双方都忘了,
怎么说我爱你。


Read this from a blogger, awesome blog post!!